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WHY?

I was recently shown an interesting video.

It mentions how important it is for businesses to understand WHY they do what they do.

Fitting.

So, I thought I would answer WHY.

WHY?

I love the innocent and unguarded curiosity of a child.

I love the forgiving nature of a child.

I love watching the “AH HA!” moments.

I love watching the spills.

I hate cleaning them up, but it is worth every moment of cleaning.

I love learning about myself while watching them play.

I love the energy.

The never ending energy.

Maybe it is because I think like a child.

Maybe it is because I do not fit into the structure we create.

Maybe it is because I understand them better.

But,

I will choose the company of a child over an adult any day.

WHY do you do what you do?

Great Education Resources

I am a big fan of google.  I search for anything and everything.

I am also a fan of google reader.  I subscribe to so many blogs and pages and just go to my reader.  I am not very good at checking web pages, and just go to my reader to stay up to date.

A few of my favorites include:

Freelyeducate.com (They are doing a giveaway for a STAPLES gift card through Friday.  You can enter here.  While this is a giveaway, most of the stuff posted is stuff that everyone can get for free.  I have gotten some cool things through them.)

Not Just Cute (I often wonder if I have a split personality, because we have so many similarities, except that she lives half way across the country.  Someday, I will talk to her. She is another great resource for early childhood.)

Free Fun in Austin (A great local resource for those living in the Austin, TX area, but not really education focused.)

What are your favorite (early childhood) education blogs?

We are all the same…

I often hear people tell me that they just do not understand children.

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or

“I could never work with children.”

or

“How do you do it?”

My response is usually something along the lines of:

“I could never work with adults!”

or

“How do you do it?”

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or

“I just do not understand adults.”

See, I am able to be patient with children,

because I understand that they are learning.

They are trying to figure out the big, confusing world.

I often forget that adults are still learning.

Adults are trying to figure out the big, confusing world, too.

We are all going to make mistakes.

Children and adults.

I am able to be patient with children;

they do not understand rules/social norms/etc.

They have not had as much practice as adults.

Children are clumsy.

Children do not mean to make a mess.

Children are not trying to fall down.

But, even adults,

the ones who are still trying to figure it all out,

make mistakes and forget.

I lose my patience with adults too often.

I forget that even adults spill.

I forget that even adults fall.

My husband frustrates me.

If he is on the computer,

it would take a bomb to get his attention.

But how patient are we when

our children are engrossed in a book

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or a game?

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I need to be more patient with my husband

and you.

In turn,

if you are an adult who is not perfect,

please try to be more patient with your child.

Imagine how frustrated s/he can get.

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at the drop of a hat.

S/he does not understand why

using a fork or spoon is so hard.

You do it so easily.

S/he does not understand why

it is so hard to stack blocks.

Your towers are so much taller

and sturdier.

How patient are you when your child makes mistakes?

How patient are you when your child forgets?

I know I need to be more patient with adults,

the ones who have had a lot more practice.

I hope you are working on being more patient with children

the ones who need your help and support

so that they can become better adults.

Most of the time,

your ability to handle the mistakes and frustrations

teaches the children more than the words you say.

What impact are you having?

Intentions

I recently took my children out to a local and very exciting children’s destination.

While we were there, I saw an excited little girl jump up with excitement.

When she jumped, her head collided with her mother’s mouth.

I was instantly taken back to those moments when my children have stepped on my fingers or toes

…when my children have fallen over only to land on my nose

or

…hit my already weak and strained jaw.

I could relate to the pain that the mother felt

and I was proud of the mother

for a moment.

The mother remained calm.

Even I have overreacted on occasion to my children being clumsy.

Then, I watched the mother grab her daughter and pull her away.

She told her little girl that they were going home.

My heart broke.

I thought about the times that I let my emotions deprive my children of learning opportunities.

I thought about how that little girl was innocently jumping with excitement

and without understanding why

she was going home.

I know that the role of a parent is an exhausting one.

I understand that there is absolutely no time for rest.

As soon as you think you will have a nice evening of rest,

you can almost guarantee that there will be a cold or a nightmare to bring you back to reality.

But,

I am begging you to think about the confusing world that your children live in.

They want to make Mom and Dad happy.

They want to learn to do things themselves.

They do not intend to spill the milk

for the 249th time.

They do not understand personal space.

The volume of their voice is a difficult lesson to learn

(at least it is for my son -

he likes to test his “outside” voice when we most need him to be quiet)

Even emotions are a difficult one to master.

Who are we kidding

emotions are difficult for adults to master.

Life is a huge learning opportunity.

Take advantage of the opportunity.

There are times when children hit or hurt on purpose.

Even then, getting angry will only teach children to get angry.

Use that as an opportunity to show compassion.

Experts say that you should always console the injured FIRST

it helps educate the “hitter.”

I have hugged many dolls, trucks, and other inanimate objects to demonstrate that lesson.

Without saying a word, it is often followed by a hug or kiss from the one doing harm to the other person/thing.

When I have been hurt,

I show my sadness

and try to remember that I mean the world to my children.

Most of the time, they just did not understand what they were doing.

Children are clumsy.

Children are forgetful.

Children are emotional.

So are adults.

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